New boyfriend still on dating site
You obviously want your concern addressed damaging the relationship.
So, here are a few tips for a successful conversation: You need to bring up the topic somehow. If you went onto his laptop to snoop around and came across an active profile, be honest about it. Set the tone for honesty and you’ll have a respectful conversation.
Assuming you’re still in the early stages of your relationship, this is a delicate situation.
You don’t want to come off as demanding and pushy, but you don’t want anything happening behind your back either.
How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed?
I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…
As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.
After all, you wouldn’t dream of still being on a dating site would you? Is he really your boyfriend or has your imagination carried you away in this relationship?
When you find out your partner is still on a dating site, you may begin to wonder if he is cheating, has a fear of missing out (FOMO), or, just isn’t that into you. Never good news to discover, but it must have come from somewhere.
If this is you, stop right here and please check out the Journey Inward and start doing some inner work. You won’t likely find him still active on a dating site.
I don’t care what he tells you or what excuse he gives.
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